So, since my life will be turning a new page as soon as the now ex(hooray!)-boyfriend moves his things out of my house, I figured I should assume some kind of plan of action for the new change in my life.
1. Find living room furniture. I've got a couch offered by my mom she could bring down. (Geez, do I feel 21 again or what.) And my boss asked me if I wanted an entertainment center. Yes!
Everything else in the house is mine. I'll watch tv on the floor if I have to for awhile. Little man probably wouldn't be too bothered by that at all.
2. Clean and purge all the "him" stuff. Theraputic, and OCD. Just is.
Really, that's the first steps. Just living day to day will be the hardest part for awhile. I can't even find words to explain the relief I feel though. No more misery.
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Plans are good. Just take it a day at a time and realize that, like all things that end, you need to mourn and give yourself time to recover. The death of a relationship is difficult - on the one hand, if it was a bad relationship, you're relieved to be out of it, but on the other...there are always some good things that you can take away from it.
ReplyDeleteGood to see you working through this via your blog. It takes guts to share yourself like this. :)
Cheers,
Sheila
Thank you Sheila for your advice and hopefulness! :)I appreciate it so much!
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